How can I make mass influence the effects of a collision?

I have two objects, the player and a testcube, collide with each other. I want the player to be pushed farther away if I increase the mass of the cube.
I thought that increased mass meant increased collision force on the collided object. Is this wrong?

Scenario: One unmoving player object and a standard cube. Both have attached a rigidbody and a cylindrical collider. Both are unaffected by gravity and are not kinematic. I have a script that sets the cube sliding towards the player with an initial velocity. The cube is destroyed on contact with the player, as for the purposes of the game most of the objects colliding with the player destroy themselves after contact. At collision, the player is pushed some distance away from the point of impact. The magnitude of this distance, however, is only affected by the speed of the cube at collision, not by its mass. Except for just a tiiiiiny, tiny increase in distance when I increase the cube’s mass from 1 to 100. After that, further increase in mass yields no effect.

Is there something about the physics model I’m not getting? Is my understanding of physics at fault? Have I made an error somewhere that messes with the physics?

Thanks in advance

Well, what physics material do those two colliders have? I guess you want a 100% elastic collision? In this case you have to use a material with a bounciness of “1” on both objects. With a bounciness of 0 you essentially get a 100% inelastic collision.

In both cases the actual impulse should be preserved. In an inelastic collision the two objects basically become one mass and the impulse energy will be distributed across the combined mass. If the object that is hit was at full rest the resulting velocity is always smaller than the velocity of the object colliding as the mass suddenly increased. Though an elastic collision could result in a higher velocity if the resting mass is smaller than the mass that hits the resting mass.

This is because when they collide they transfer their momentum over. If you want to have an effect where they just bounce off without the transfer of momentum then you will want to have a look at Physics Marerials:

Click This link To watch a video on Physics Materials

I did experiment around a little with physics materials with different values for bounciness. This added bounciness increased the distance a little bit, but again did so largely independent of mass. When both objects have a physics material with bounciness=1, the player is only pushed ~0.4 meters farther away when I use a cube with a mass of 100 instead of a mass of 1.