Some Rig Problems, searching since yesterday, pls help I´m tired

When i try to set up an animation on an avatar I´m getting this error.

Copied Avatar Rig configuration mis-match. Transform hierarchy does not match: Transform ‘Hips’ for human bone ‘Hips’ not found

I changed the hip bone, changed the hierarchy, tried other models and other animations.
It doesnt work what ever I try. I watched nearly 20 Videos that maybe could fix my issue, but well… they didn´t.
I hope someone can help me…

Sounds like you might have an issue with the importing rig, or the original rig used to create the avatar. Specifically the bones near the root/hips.
Can you show the hierarchy of both rigs in Unity?

like this??

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