Unity XR Hands 1.3

I have tried very unsuccessfully to get hand tracking to work. All the video’s I can find show XR Hands 1.1. In 1.1 the Hand Visualizer script has a field for the XR Origin. In 1.3 that field is gone for one thing.
I have everything setup and every thread I have found issues that others have had, my setup is correct, yet I still cannot get this to even show the hand meshes.
does anyone have insight into this?