reseting the move tool location

every time i move an object i find that the actual tool to click and move the sprite or object is really far away from the actual object.can i reset the position of the tool so it lines up with the object? also how do i set the rotation to be in increments of like 5 Degrees i thoght it was ctrl but it dosent work thanks in advance

Are you moving the individual tiles, or are you moving the parent of several tiles? It looks like you have selected a parent and you are getting the position of that parent, rather than the child tiles.